God's unconditional acceptance. The problem is that it still falls short of the conditions the heart is seeking to be met.
It is like being invited to a party where you have no business being there. Everyone reminds you that you do not deserve to be there and that you should be eternally grateful to the gracious host who invited you. It is just not a lot of fun.
"In Christ we are important, we are qualified, and we are loved. Satan can do absolutely nothing to alter our position in Christ and our worth to God. But he can render us virtually inoperative if he can deceive us into listening to and believing his insidious lies accusing us of being of little value to God and or other people." Bondage Breaker - Neil Anderson
Beyond covered by grace, we are important, needed, qualified and passionately loved by God.
Ephesians 1:3-8 (The Message)
"How blessed is God! And what a blessing he is! He's the Father of our Master, Jesus Christ, and takes us to the high places of blessing in him. Long before he laid down earth's foundations, he had us in mind, had settled on us as the focus of his love, to be made whole and holy by his love. Long, long ago he decided to adopt us into his family through Jesus Christ. (What pleasure he took in planning this!) He wanted us to enter into the celebration of his lavish gift-giving by the hand of his beloved Son.
Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, his blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we're a free people -- free of penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free! He thought of everything, provided for everything we could possibly need,"
These verses tell us who we are to God and how important we are to Him. We can break out of the endless loop of searching when we go to our heavenly father and trust what He has told us that we are wanted, needed and very much loved.