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AUGUST  2011

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Restaurant Tantrum Etiquette

by Ashley Murphy

I know I'm probably about to ruffle some feathers. In fact, I know I am. Just a warning before you read the article. And to make it known, I do not have children. However, I do have a two and a half year old nephew. But, I do want children of my own one day and when that day comes, I hope I would have the decency to RESPECT the other patrons within a screaming or throwing radius of any child capable of doing so. With that being said, this article is from a point of view for someone, such as myself, who is single, has no children and would love to be able to enjoy a nice relaxing dinner in a decent, sit down, order off the menu restaurant.

I read recently where a restaurant in Pennsylvania had banned children under the age of 6. My first thought, "I wish I lived in Monroeville. I would eat at this restaurant everyday!" I'm all for it. I don't believe every restaurant should enact such a policy, but there are a couple here in Cleveland that would be perfect candidates for such.

Some are highly disgusted that such a thought should even come about. But I guarantee you, if some of the restaurants around here had a similar ban, they would probably get more of my business. If you say that would deter you from going again because it's so preposterous...good! Stay at home with your kids. It doesn't hurt me any. I will get to enjoy a quiet meal, be able to have a decent conversation and not have to worry about picking flying food out of my hair.

A few years ago, I went on a Gatlinburg trip with some friends. One night, we decided to leave the cabin and have dinner at Ruby Tuesdays. There were myself, my boyfriend at the time, the couple we were with and their 2 sons; one only a few months old, the other only a couple of years old. Of course, the hostess would have to seat us in the middle of the dining room with booths around us on all sides, all holding other patrons looking to satisfy their hunger. Well, the oldest decides he's bored in his high chair and wants to entertain himself...by throwing food, silverware, ice, straws, napkins, you name it. But it wasn't just amongst the table, he was throwing them at people sitting at other tables! The mom just kept taking things away and saying, "Stop. That's not nice." To which he started laughing and did it again. This went on throughout the entire meal. He even managed to get the baby crying by throwing stuff on him as the parents continued to eat, just ignoring what was going on with their kids. I swear I could have been cast to Hades with some of the looks our table was receiving. I was completely and utterly mortified.

I think I would be happy if restaurants entertained the idea of having "family" sections for families that dine with children under a certain age. They required smokers to sit in the "smoking" section so as not to disturb other patrons. So why not turn those former smoking sections into the "family section" and let the families annoy each other?

Ashley Murphy
People News Media Assistant

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I realize not all children are as unruly as the many that I've come across and maybe those parents don't feel like that ban should apply to them. Then how about you start up some sort of parental etiquette course and teach those parent's that don't give a hoot a little about manners, respect and discipline? It completely disgusts and, quite frankly, disturbs me to see how some of these kids act and the parents just sit there like a lump on a log and don't even attempt to reprimand their children. I can only imagine what the home life is like as they let their kids walk all over them.


Even when that day comes that I finally have children of my own, if it ever does, I would still support such bans or cordoning off of sections. We would just have to find somewhere else to eat. Or my husband and I could go have dinner, alone, and enjoy some peace and quiet. I'm sure there's hundreds of thousands of teenagers and college age people out there that would love to make some extra money watching our kids for a couple of hours while we go to a child-free restaurant and have some adult time.

Get mad, disagree, chastise me, I don't really care. And for those of you who complain about teenagers and that you would rather sit in a room full of tantrum throwing toddlers than near a table full of teenagers...well, that's a completely different issue. Take that up with someone else.


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